Our Story

Life is Precious. So is Your Purpose — There’s More 2 Live 4.

Our original vision was simple but bold:

If we were going to build a resource for personal and relational excellence, it had to be the finest—relevant, practical, and deeply impactful for the times we’re living in. From the beginning, our goal has been to create something timeless yet adaptable, and that’s why our content continues to evolve—always growing to meet the real needs of real people.

Our approach to relationship development is built on over 35 years of professional experience in behavioral science and grounded in the real-life wisdom of a thriving 40-year marriage.

Our mission is to create the ultimate resource for strengthening any relationship, while also empowering individuals in their personal growth and relationship readiness. This journey is a testament to the emotional foundation behind our work and the unwavering dedication to our core values: Listen, Learn, and Live — and just as importantly, Listen, Learn, and Talk.

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The Relationship Between Our Founder’s Parents

After 28 years of marriage, my mother divorced our father, and he was never able to move on, even 25 years later, when he passed away, still in love with her. In honor of those we’ve helped, I created Pairfection.us. Our Beyond Our Love Worksheet experience is dedicated to my father, as his relationship with my mother showed that love alone isn’t always enough.

As an adult, I finally had the opportunity to learn about my father during his extended stays with us. During one of these stays, he shared that he believed if someone like me and the resources provided by Pairfection.us were available during their marriage, they could have made it work. This conversation sparked the creation of Pairfection.us—offering personal growth courses for teens through adults, along with powerful relationship development experiences designed to strengthen connections, save relationships, and help prevent divorce.

Our legacy objective has become our purpose:
“To transform the way couples greet and live together by fostering deeper connection, mutual respect, and intentional communication, creating daily habits that strengthen emotional bonds and enhance relationship satisfaction.” Thus, reversing divorce trends by making healthy, fulfilling relationships the natural solution.”

Triggering the Heart of Our Actual Beginning

As Master Licensees representing PDP Global, established as Global Behavior Companies, we have been operating for over three decades. Our main focus has been assisting companies worldwide, providing high-level consultation to understand the intricacies of their people. By integrating the PDPworks behavioral systems and certification training, we offer tailored solutions.

But our services have extended beyond the corporate realm. Clients often approach us seeking something special for their loved ones in new relationships or planning for their futures. We also answer the call of those facing more complex situations such as marriages falling apart, dysfunctional families, and parents seeking help for troubled teens. Furthermore, many of our clients were eager for relational solutions for their employees, as they noticed a significant loss of productivity due to familial issues affecting work performance.

Over time, Global has received life-changing feedback from those we have assisted. This led us to recognize the pressing need for proper instruction and knowledge in personal awareness and nurturing unique relationships. Hence, we embarked on the journey of creating a separate company — dedicated to offering specific resources that enhance relationships and personal development for career and relationship preparation.

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Don Crosby and Brent Hubby, PDP, CEO discussing Pairfection.us while in Beaver Creek, CO

Born from PDP, Built on "Listen, Learn, and Talk"

Pairfection.us began by offering PDP reports and practical application guidance, but it quickly became clear that more support was needed. This realization led to the development of the Beyond Our Love Worksheet—a tool designed to help couples engage more meaningfully. Still, a clear, step-by-step guide to prepare users for assessments remained a missing piece.

Delivering PDP reports and worksheets as PDFs also felt inefficient. To improve the experience, we developed self-development courses. We launched our PDP API project, allowing users to complete the PDP survey directly within the course and receive their results seamlessly as part of a streamlined learning journey.

“Since PDP’s inception, ProScan has been a trusted resource applied in business and personal settings through our trained clients and representatives. Now, Pairfection.us has seamlessly integrated our technology with its unique resources, offering an ideal solution for relationships and personal development. If you wish to strengthen your relationship, Pairfection.us is the answer you’ve been seeking”.
Bent W. Hubby,
CEO, PDP Global, Inc.

How Our Personal Growth and Development Courses Evolved

Meanwhile, Don wanted to express gratitude to his friend, Tim Connor, whom he admired and considered a mentor. Tim joined Don and his wife for a casual cookout, where he presented Don with two double CDs containing his 25 Relationship Principles and 25 Success Principles.

As Don listened to these CDs, brilliantly written and narrated by Tim, he realized they were the missing pieces to Pairfection.us. Several conversations later, the vision for our platform started to take shape — to create the finest personal development and relationship courses to assist the mass population.

And so, the concepts of “Listen, Learn and Talk” and “Listen, Learn and Live” were born. We believe that the path to transformative growth begins with listening to these relatable audio resources. From there, users have the opportunity to learn by completing the PDP assessment for personal clarity and exploring the Side-by-Side reports that compare each person’s results. The Beyond Our Love Worksheets offer further insights into how life’s experiences and circumstances shape relationships. Enhanced with the Pairfection.us User’s Guide, providing an exceptional value proposition.

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The Long-Term Impact of Pairfection.us

We’ve blended these vital elements to offer a truly impactful experience.
For couples, it’s Listen, Learn, and Talk.
For personal growth, Listen, Learn, and Live.
Our courses are designed to help you build a more fulfilling life and stronger relationships.

Personal Benefits Of Our Self-Development Classes

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Enhanced Relationships

Strengthen bonds and enhance understanding! Through interactive exercises and insightful principles, participants can improve their communication and connection with their partners.

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Personal Growth

Pairfection.us encourages participants to explore their identity, passions, and potential, and provides tools for stress management and positive self-image cultivation.

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Nurturing Happiness and Depth

With a unique approach and emphasis on open communication and self-discovery, this relationship development intervention program aims to help individuals and couples achieve greater satisfaction and fulfillment.

Start Developing Trusting Relationships Now

Welcome to Pairfection.us — where listening, learning, and thriving are at the core of our vision.

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